
Dad, January 1, 2009. 1940-2009
2009...Wow. This has probably been the most eventful year of my life. It's been a year of trial, a year of great love, a year of roller derby, a year of stress and pain and a year of scarcity and abundance. 2009 was a year of crossing into a new age, and a year of innumerable tests and questions. Was it a hard year? Absolutely. Was it a good year? Certainly. Most of all, it was an enlightening year: a year of clarity.
In January, my father died. Although Dad's health had been slipping for a few years, his death seemed sudden and came as a shock. Suzanne, Jay, kids and I drove down to Tulsa for his funeral service, which was somewhat somber, somewhat tranquil and wholly cathartic. I miss Dad especially now, during the holidays...this time last year, we were hanging out together.

Me, with the brightest hair ever, May 16 at the derby track, TGT vs. VIP.
What else happened this year? I really began to play Roller Derby much more. I was in 8 games, and spent countless hours learning new techniques and working on my endurance, skill and agility. I feel like I've come a long way, although I still have a long way to go to get where I want to be in the sport. It's the first team sport I've ever played, and something that I feel has been a rite of passage, because I was forced to push myself into a new form, a new attitude about myself and my ability. I am thankful for it. And, most importantly, I've got to spend time with a great group of strong, aggressive, happy and lovely angry derby ladies.

David, at the May 16 Derby after party at Mikey Finnz.
This year I met David, whom I love more than anything. His love is the thing I've wanted most in my entire life, and it's great. We met in May and fell in love fast. I can't wait to see where 2010 will take us; for sure it will be fun!

At Frankie's Tiki Lounge, with the TV Dinner birthday cupcakes Rusty (in background) made me.
Also, I turned 30 this year. Oof! This birthday came at me full-speed. I can't believe my 20s are over! They were so fun, and so chaotic. In some sense, I'm relieved that decade in my life is now lived. I am hoping for a new decade a little less rocky, a little less loud, and this decade I want to use to fully expand and explore my art and creative side. Hopefully a little less moving and little better handle on my bills will allow me to paint and play some music.
Those were the major events in my life this year. In addition, I:
Got robbed (twice! one out of my bank account, and once out of the back of my car)
Got what was robbed returned to me (money out of my account, skates out of my car)
Sprained my knee
Got two root canals and 2 crowns
Got swindled by a car repair shop, then got practically free service from an honest mechanic
Got my first car ticket
Moved into a new house
Took my first trip to Phoenix and Arizona
Finally got to drive a Dodge Challenger
Taught Henry to bark when I say "Speak!"
Got a pay cut
Lost my magazine, Casino Connection
Mom, Ariana, Angel, Mikkel, Troy and Robert visited me
Bought the first dress I've gotten since I was 16
Made a mask of my Dog
Learned how to make marshmallows
And witnessed the opening of the largest private construction problem to date in the history of the country
So, here are some pictures from the year!

Henry realizes how much he loves hiking, at Red Rock

Lisette shows Justin how to press a tamale casing at our Tamale Party

Max turns 7

Allison, Jorge, Henry, Morgan and I hike Calico Tank at Red Rock

Henry looking Dapper in his new red shirt

The day I ironed my name on to the back of my Notorious VIP shirt for our February game

Me and Hippy Jorge at the Kenny's 70's Party

Pearly Gates, Bruce Killis, Skid and Devil's AdvoKate at Down & Derby at the Beauty Bar

Leah comes to visit!

The Welcome to Las Vegas sign, turned off for 60 minutes during Earth Hour

Mikkel, Troy & Robert and Jorge's friend Saul come to visit us

Meatloaf and Mashed Potato cupcakes for Justin's birthday

Morbid Mangler and Nikki Nuke 'Em at Down and Derby at the Beauty Bar

Bruce Killis with Sahara sign in background

David and me at Pearly's "Decade" birthday party at The Office Bar.

David races his Challenger on the Strip at the Las Vegas Motor Speedway

Bruce and Shirley at The Downtown Cocktail Lounge, Memorial Day weekend for Allison's promotion party.

Henry turns 1 on July 7.



David and I make a road trip to Phoenix & Sedona

I almost get sprayed by a skunk taking this picture on our trip to Phoenix

Vinessa stands in her new house before they remodel the rooms in Oklahoma

Don't Tell Mama, a piano bar on Fremont Street



Top: Quad Zilla; Middle: Seth Green; Bottom: Shock & Me pose with an Imperial Guard at the Robot Chicken Star Wars DVD Release Tour at Crystal Palace. Seth Green laughed at my derby name! (top and middle photos courtesy of radiantphotography.com

Old Vegas Neon on Fremont Street

New wheels, new toe guards, new laces and freshly-painted racing stripes! At the practice track, West Flamingo Park









David' 29th birthday weekend extravaganza at Hofbrauhaus and Dino's





Beer vs. Liquor Scrimmage, September 2009...photos courtesy of Radiant Photography.

Flowers from Allison on my 30th birthday

David roasting a hot dog on our camping trip at Atlatl Rock at Valley of Fire.




My birthday party at Serendipity3 and Frankie's Tiki Lounge

My roller derby team photo...photos courtesy of Radiant Photography.

Press conference with Garth Brooks and Steve Wynn at the Encore



Halloween party at Kenny Manor











CityCenter opens December 2009

View of Vegas from Aria




December Roller Derby game versus CCAD...photos courtesy of Radiant Photography.


Ariana visits from Boston







Christmas















































































MG, it's Friday! And I can't tell you how happy I am today. Woke up in the best of moods, and am determined to stay that way all day. David is coming over tonight, and I am very excited to see him. Tomorrow, I have a roller derby game at 8. Good weekend up ahead! 





